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Making sure she is very aroused before entry is a make-or-break behavioral requirement for fisting. See the aforementioned wetness requirement. This is a time for slow, patient, drawn-out foreplay. The more aroused she is, the more lubricated and, thus, accommodating her body will be to your hand. The uterus even lifts up into the pelvic cavity, leaving more room in the vaginal canal.
In addition to the physiological changes that occur during foreplay, the emotional mindset foreplay provides will help her to be open and relaxed enough to take your fist. Keep talking. Keeping the communication open throughout the entire experience makes it more likely it will be a positive one. Knowing what kind of talk your partner likes — role play , chit-chat, dirty talk , romantic and loving words — can help her to stay turned-on and open to the whole experience.
Even more importantly, you need to know if she is in pain or something feels wrong. Just like anytime you try a new activity that can be intimidating, you should have a safe word preplanned before you begin. Build it and she will cum. Start small and build up. Begin with one finger at a time and work up to four. This tapered form should help you to ease your hand all the way into her when she is ready.
The most difficult part of entrance is getting past your knuckles. Once you are able to do that, the wrist should move in pretty easily. That said, not everyone can take a whole fist.
Make sure that if that is the case with your girlfriend, she isn't left feeling like she has failed somehow, and it remains a positive experience between the two of you. I can only do it left handed even though I have monkey arms and a flexible wrist combined with a lot of coconut oil. It is like what Buttwoman said- It's only cause I can it isn't great sex. But I need partner. I have fairly long arms and a short torso, which can make shopping for shirts annoying but at least it gives me this one advantage.
For me, there is no best position. I've tried it more than once while engaging in serious solo play with larger toys and found there is no angle that my arm and wrist can bend to that will allow me to get past my knuckles.
I wasn't able to self-fist until after I had some experience getting fisted by men with larger hands than my own. For years, self-fisting was awkward and would become uncomfortable pretty quickly, so I rarely did it. Now I'm more "advanced" at fisting I can take double fists and self-fisting has become relatively effortless — and more enjoyable.
Based on my own experience, I don't think anatomical proportions are the main hindrance, and a lot of people who think it's impossible could probably get there with more hole training.
You are special if you can get your fist in and have your anus clamp down on your wrist with your entire hand inside. Now I realize I have a special talent. I knew I was born with these chimp arms for a reason. Thank you SwitchableSusie fnor helping realize the special gift I had.
When I was a teenager I was flexible enough to just touch my willy with the tip of my tongue and lips-Now I'd need 18" to accomplish the same feat. Up to four fingers I know the next time the lady trys she'll get her hand in. She's got pretty small hands. Did not think I would ever accomplish the full fist inside but I finally made it, it some j lube to do it, it is a lot slicker than what I have been using,.
I've tried many times, and still haven't found that magic spot. I have a relatively short torso compared to arms so I think i'm capable, just need to get relaxed and stretched enough where it isn't a lot of work to get past the knuckles.
That's my hold up. I can stretch pretty wide with two hands, but I think I really need to just get one of those "closed hand" type fisting dildos to really work things loose before the real thing I either have a long torso or short arms. I can't even dream of fisting myself. I have a hard enough time feeding a colon tube all the way in! I breathe a sigh of relief when it's all the way in.
I look longingly at women especially who can do this. I think women are physically more able to do this. Oh well, good thing I prefer length over width I guess. Unfortunately no matter positions i would've try, none of them will allow me to insert my full fist.
I managed to insert 5 fingers and the knuckles but although the anus opens enough my hand will not go any further. I am very bottom. Generally, people do one position and one position only. Fisting basically feels like having an extremely big dick inside your ass. Can I give you a piece of advice?
Try it at least once and then tell me how boring your sexual life was before that. They all came from hookup apps, like Hornet or Grindr. I love coke. Not just in my nose, but also inside my ass, because it makes the experience of being fisted so much more comfortable. So I usually meet guys in hookup apps, we do drugs, then I clean my asshole, and we fuck. One time I forgot to douche myself properly.
Now I want you to picture a scene from the movie American Beauty , the one with the blond actress lying on a bed of red roses. And now substitute all those flowers for shit. And I really wish that guy could forgive me for that awful experience and I hope to never see him again.
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